"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart." These famous lines by the great writer Helen Keller are applicable to those who are dating and want to know if they have found their soul mate. These days it can be a challenge to keep up with dating games. You meet a lot of people and can be easily distracted by all of the choices. You trust without thinking and make yourself believe that the person you are with is indeed your soul mate. But there are ways to truly decipher if this particular "someone" is really your soul mate.
Take your time getting to know potential partners - It is called "finding a soul mate" not "looking for a right now mate." Simply put, you cannot instantly say that this person is my soul mate on your first date. What you can do is trust the person's integrity but trust with caution. If he says that he was brought up well and that he values respect trust what you hear while being cautious as well. You know you are with your soul mate if you find a sense of security. Take the time to find out if your partner values empathy, listening, open and direct communication, honesty, fidelity and growth. Although it may feel like "love at first sight," in reality it is just infatuation at first glance. Time will reveal the real soul of the person you are with.
You must feel a sense of security with your partner - Remember, true love is not "him" it is "that". You know you are with your soul mate when you feel completely secure in his arms. You are not scared of facing tomorrow by his side. You fully trust his integrity and his whole being. You feel so safe that you can reveal your inner self, most embarrassing moments, deepest darkest secrets and even family dilemmas.
You feel physically attuned with each other - The feeling of being full of life when with each other is a good indication that you are with your soul mate. When you are together you feel enhanced, excited and more alive.
You can communicate at any level -The simplest interpretation of this is a feeling of sincerely "knowing each other" and "what is going on" with your partner.
There are many ways to determine if your partner is truly your soul mate. Seek an experts advice and browse through other articles about true love and relationships for additional information.